Those are all good jobs to have, and ones where I hope they would be okay with things like tattoos and colored hair. Definitely worth fighting for what you want. And I think looking ahead of time on the social media for the area is a great idea!
Definitely sick of appeasing conservatives. Hate being forced to.

Yeah, accessories are probably a good way to go to at least try and improve the "not as normal as I might look" vibe, haha. I like thrift stores for clothes, but it can be frustrating trying to find anything I like that also fits. I've found a handful of nice things, but usually walk away without much. Shoes are the worst to try and find!