Yeah, it's best to be able to vibe check certain types of groups before joining ... or chat before becoming DW mutuals. I've done some... awkward unfriendings over the years. Having chill spaces is so much better for community building or finding fandom friends I think.

I spend too much time on twitch, but also it's a decent social outlet especially with the world the way it is.

I'd love to have a writing group. I've tried to start one a few times, but no luck. The ones I tried to join were, uh, not good vibes. Also, I don't want to tell rando wannabe novelists that I am working on fanfic projects.