mistressofmuses

Poor Alex is just hideously sick. Negative on a Covid test, but I know that's not a sure thing. He is having a bad time of it. It seems similar to the awful whatever-it-was that I had back in February. Miserable.

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Unfortunately that meant we couldn't go out last night - we'd planned on going to the last "SIN Sunday" of the year, which was also a final test to see if they could draw enough of a crowd for the club to allow for it to continue as a monthly night. (It's been weekly for years and years and years. It was the night that used to be at the deconsecrated Church-turned-nightclub.) Minus the single "goodbye" event there a few months ago, it bounced between a few different clubs, but has been at the same one for a couple years now.
Then they decided a couple months ago (fairly abruptly) that it no longer had enough of a draw, so it was unceremoniously cancelled. The club owners agreed to give it one last shot, and would give us one a month instead of a weekly night, but only if they meet an undisclosed threshold of "worth it." The DJs have been really begging everyone to please-please-please come out. We were going to, and it sucks that the timing synced up the way it did.
I haven't heard anything yet from any of the DJs or on any of the local FB groups about whether they hit the target for last night or not. That makes it seem like it wasn't a RESOUNDING success, but hopefully it's just that it's the end of the year, and it'll take a bit for them to sort it all out.

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There's a lot said about how the last week of the year, from Christmas through New Years, is sort of a weird liminal span where time feels even faker than usual. After my grandmother died, it already feels like Christmas was a really long time ago now. Having three days off, then one day back, then taking an unplanned day off from work when she died, and then going back for just a couple days (one of which I worked solo), and immediately having another three days in a row off... it definitely feels really fake and weird and like I cannot tell what day it's supposed to be.

Alex being so sick that basically all he can do is sleep adds to the weird feeling.

I definitely feel like there are things I should be doing, but then when I try to figure out what it is that I'm forgetting to do, I can't figure it out. Trying to sort out my end of year reflections and goals for next year, I suppose. I feel like it's pretty well the same as last year into this one, though!

I remember hearing radio ads for SIN Sundays at The Church nightclub when I was in high school. The commercials ran overnight sometimes, and were extremely early 00s goth vibes. ("Denver's longest-running goth and service industry night, SIN Sundays at... The Church." *church bell and bat squeaks*) At the time, young-teen me thought it sounded extremely cool and like a thing I'd love to do someday, but I figured I'd never ever go. It would be too cool for me, obviously.

Then Alex came out here, and wanted to see if there were any goth nights. Not locally in Greeley, where we lived at the time, but there were in Denver! Like... SIN Sundays! At the church!

That was the first goth night I ever went to on purpose. (The weekend after my 21st birthday we had gone to Tracks, one of the biggest gay clubs in Denver, on what was coincidentally their monthly goth night, ha.)

The Church nightclub was located in an actual deconsecrated church. The building is over 100 years old, and it's just an absolutely fantastic venue. SIN Sundays was held in both rooms of the basement. Not sure I can think of a better place for a goth night. (And of course the additional opportunity to say "why yes, of course I go to church every Sunday. :) ")

We went regularly for years! Sadly, after a few years of declining attendance, the owners of the club eventually decided that it wasn't a profitable night. There was a bit of an attempt to rally and show that the night was still popular, but it didn't take off enough to change the owner's mind. (The club stayed open, but focused more on more mainstream-popular genres.)

SIN Sundays carried on, floating around between a few different clubs. Covid kind of wrecked everything, and nothing was happening anywhere for a while. SIN Sundays started back up a couple years ago, now at the same club that some of the other goth nights happen at, but we haven't gone back out. We've missed clubbing, but I don't have nearly the endless energy to handle late nights and drinking and then having to go be an adult the next day as I used to. Sundays would be the ideal night for me, since I do have Mondays off, but it felt wrong not being in The Church, heh.

The owner of the CoClubs has decided to sell The Church (as well as one of their other clubs, Vinyl.) The current usual home of SIN Sundays, as well as the Wednesday goth night, and "Mixtape" Saturdays which is half-goth, is not being sold, so it will continue.

But as a last hurrah for the club, they did one last SIN Sunday there last night.



There was great turnout, and it's a shame that wasn't the case before! Despite not having been out in close to 5 years, there were a lot of familiar faces! We didn't talk to many people... by design, lol. Baby steps in being social, okay?



But we danced, and we drank overpriced drinks (how the fuck is a well drink $11 now?), and it was extremely bittersweet to be back in a place that I've missed, yet know I might not ever see again.

Now, it's possible that isn't the case: the company that both clubs were sold to is also an entertainment venture. Though they seem to focus on electronic music, it could arguably be goth-adjacent... but I'm not going to count on it.

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Just in case, I plan to copy a couple of articles from CoClubs about The Church's history over here. I don't know if they'll leave them up or delete them now that they don't own the club any longer, but the history is cool and I didn't find a lot that was documented outside of the club's website.

Last set of show photos through stagelights for a while. :P We were spoiled for shows this month!

This time Covenant, with our friend Mark and his project Voicecoil opening!


The show flyer.


Obligatory venue sign. Taken after the show. The little white dot at the top of the sign is the moon.


Voicecoil opening!


Covenant! (Mostly Eskel)

Mark got to make a very exciting announcement, too: Voicecoil has been signed to Dependent Records! They're a German label who have released things for a LOT of pretty prominent artists within the scene, including Covenant, so that's extremely exciting news. (He actually told me and Alex about it several months ago while things were still being ironed out, but it's official now!)

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The show on Saturday was fun! Who wants some mediocre stage photos!?


Obligatory venue sign.


The lead singer of Priest. My favorite shot of the night, despite the rando taking up half the frame.


Combichrist!

I had that mandatory work meeting after work, though I'd told my manager that I had to leave at 6:00. But then Alex was running late, and the meeting was winding down anyway, so I stuck around. Then Alex arrived, but I got cornered by the head of compliance who wanted to answer one of my questions, which I appreciated, but I had to go! I did cut out pretty fast after that, but we were still not leaving until almost 6:30.

As we arrived at the venue, dreading the parking situation and hoping we hadn't missed much, we saw a huge line of goths waiting outside, lol. Checking on the event page, we found out doors had been postponed until 6:45, so the timing was almost perfect!

We pre-gamed a little bit, and then headed in.

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We got home a bit after midnight, and managed to make it to bed by about 1:00, after taking care of the dogs. It's pathetic that I was as tired as I was after it! This "getting older" stuff is nonsense.

Bleh, photos were definitely pretty mediocre this time. The lighting was as not-conducive as always, but my phone seems to get worse every time I try to use it for things like this.

I know I have a lot a lot of catching up to do here, but it'll be one more night!