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A few people said they'd be interested in the recipe my vet had for an at-home kidney diet for dogs.

Here's what she gave me!


It's an older recipe (from the 80s), but she says it's still solid in terms of the proportions of protein/fat/carbs that do best for kidney issues. The source is Hills.

What makes this kidney-friendly is that it's a restricted protein diet.

Ingredients:
1/4 lb ground beef (do not use lean/chuck)*
2 cups cooked white rice, no salt**
1 hard-cooked egg, finely chopped
3 slices of white bread, crumbled
1t (5g) calcium carbonate***
Add a dietary supplement for vitamins and minerals

Cook the beef, stirring lightly until browned. Stir in the rest of the ingredients until mixed well. Add water (not milk) if the mixture is too dry. Yields about 1 1/4 lb of food.

* It seems like it's hard to find anything OTHER than lean ground beef, and chuck (80%) I don't think is considered "lean." I think you can generally find 73%, which is what I think we'll try. I'm guessing this recommendation is because you want the higher fat content.

** Specifying both white rice and white bread does not surprise me. That was one of the things that did surprise a lot of the family when my grandmother had to be on a renal diet, that you want white rice and bread, not brown or whole grain.

*** The bottom of the page helpfully suggests going to a grocer to purchase eggshells for the calcium carbonate. My vet has helpfully written in "Tums" as an alternative, haha. This works out to five tablets, at least of the type we have, since they are 1000mg each.
I wasn't sure why this quantity of calcium was recommended, but a quick search says that it's a common use in dogs and cats with kidney disease, because it helps to bind to the extra phosphates in their blood. (Creatinine being the one that she said was most elevated for Cy.)

Analysis of the recipe:
Protein 6.9%
Fat 5.5%
Carbohydrate 21.1%
Moisture 65.5%
750 kcalories/lb of food

Now, for Cy's weight, he'd need to eat a bit more than the recipe yields per day (though it could scale up fairly easily, and we would probably be cooking it in bulk anyway.)

Unfortunately, rice was already a significant part of the diet we were giving the dogs (since Bella is allergic to wheat), but Cy has decided to go on a rice strike, and now refuses to eat it. We'd actually just started replacing it with bread, which he loves! So maybe we'll try substituting in more bread and less rice.

We are giving him the kidney foods we got samples of (she gave us three cans and three ziplocs of different dry foods.) We had him try a few of each of the kibbles, all of which he liked, and he got to try some of the Royal Canin wet food, I think with some of the same brand's kibble mixed in as well for dinner tonight, and he *cleaned* that bowl. So he likes the food.

But as everyone else pointed out, and I already knew, it is *expensive*. $120 for a case of 24 cans, with feeding guidelines to feed *three cans per day* for a dog of his weight? That's about $15/day, and unfortunately... I don't think we can afford that.

Now, beef and eggs are also pretty expensive! But it's going to be a lot less than $15 a day.

I'm also thinking about maybe combining the two. We typically feed twice a day, so maybe the home diet once per day, and the commercial food once per day? Primarily the home recipe, but with a half a can/a small serving of the kibble per day added in? That would maybe let him reap some of the benefits of the commercial diet (additional supplements that they include, etc.) while not being AS big a budget blow for us, while still making sure that everything he's getting falls within the guidelines for a better diet for him.
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His liver function is good, so he gets to stay on his pain meds!

His thyroid is a little low, but barely outside of normal range.

His kidney function is not as good. It's not dangerous, but his creatine is elevated. It's around a 2.5 when it should be down in the .5 to around 1 range. According to the vet, 10+ is when you're approaching kidney failure territory.

Monday or Tuesday we'll stop back by the vet to get some samples of kidney diet food, and see if we can find one that he likes. The vet said she also has a home-feeding recipe for a kidney-friendly diet, so I'll get that, too. (We haven't ever found a commercial dog food that the dogs do very well on, so we do make their food. Though if Cy likes any of the foods we get samples of, that may be what we go with for him.) Fortunately, it is something we can try to adjust his diet to help with.

I am not terribly surprised about him having kidney issues. The mystery illness he had many years ago absolutely had kidney involvement along with everything else, and we suspected at the time that there would be lasting damage. We avoided any high-protein foods, but it's likely that we now need to actually start aiming for low-protein for him.
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Back on Sunday, right after Alex got back from Kansas, he took Bella to another FastCAT competition. I wish they weren't always on weekends - I'd rather be doing that than work!




Second run was a new personal best! (I do not know why they're labeled 3 and 4; it's a max of two per day.)


And then she took a nap.

Alex bought a few prints from the photographer at her previous FastCAT at the end of February:




3 more pictures of the pictures from last time:


Running!


Tongue flailing!


So intense!
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If only we'd gone for some historical reenactment...

Next week is going to be a busy one, at least in some regards.

I'm going over to hang out with Taylor tomorrow night through Tuesday morning. We'd been planning that already, back when mom was going to be down in NM. Still doing it, but also glad I'll get to see mom after the injured rib thing.

(Mom says it still really sucks, and hurts a whole lot, but seems slightly better every day. She was told by both urgent cares that she needs to stay active and make sure to take deep breaths. Since deep breaths feel like being stabbed, she said she understands why people start only breathing shallowly, so she's trying to force deep breathing exercises as a form of home PT.)

Then Alex is going to Kansas, Thursday through Saturday. This is for BreyerMidwest, a model show and event. For the last several years it's been BreyerWest, held in Colorado, but this year they moved it to Kansas, which is now apparently the permanent home. (I have lots of mostly annoyed feelings about this; it was supposed to be a sort of alternative event for people who couldn't make a trip out to Kentucky for the annual BreyerFest, but now it's basically in the middle of the country, removing the original purpose of making something more easily accessible to the western chunk of the country.) Since I just took a long weekend off in February, I can't take another this month. So Alex is going solo.

This means I am alone with the dogs and no car while working, which is not ideal.

I've been planning to stay over at mom and Taylor's for those few days, getting rides to and from work when possible (and taking Uber or Lyft if needed), and since Taylor works from home, the dogs don't have to be alone and confined all day. (While Cy would be okay, Bella would have to be kenneled, and nine hours while I'm at work is just so long.)

This was something I have been *really* worried about, because of the new cat. Cy loves cats, and Bella mostly seems just *interested* in cats, but I am so afraid of her trying to chase, and having something bad happen. She has more of an obvious prey drive than Cy does, even if she's never acted aggressively toward cats she has seen. While Taylor would be home, they are working, and can't have all their focus on the animals. We do not yet know how Jaspurr feels about dogs; Mocha made it clear that she wanted nothing to do with the dogs, so we kept them separated for the one day that mom was dogsitting, but that's less feasible for three whole days.

Now that mom will also be there (and not in NM) I am slightly less worried, because I don't think there will be as much unsupervised time... but also, my mom has badly bruised ribs! So dealing with a super energetic dog is probably low on the list of desirable activities. :/

So... looking forward to hanging out with Taylor quite a bit, but not looking forward to the anxiety about animal interactions that I'm not present to supervise. I know that all the other times I've been anxious about the dogs - when we left Cy with mom, then when we left him with her overnight, then when it was both dogs, then when it was both dogs while Mocha was also there - it has been fine, despite my worry. That doesn't make the worry go away.

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Still not 100% over the crud I got last week, but still doing better than everyone else who got it. Wednesday was rough, and so was today a bit, but overall it's mostly just minor annoyance at this point.

I still feel really behind after having lost a bunch of days to being too sick to do much more than sleep, though. I need to get my friend's book chapter back to her. I've fallen behind on DW. I haven't even touched my own writing for weeks now. (Still doing okay at reading, but not much else. Four books done for the month so far!) I know that this upcoming week, what with not being home for more than a single night, I won't be getting much done. I'll hopefully manage to get my friend's chapter completed, and then maybe next week I'll feel okay about easing back to writing again.

Of course, it doesn't help that I *still* just want to sleep once I get home. :/ Every time I give in to that, I just get farther behind, but every time I *don't*, I'm afraid I'm extending my time spent sick! I hate it.
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Welp, it sure is almost the end of the year.

I was planning on sharing a "Top Ten" favorite pictures, then remembered that last year I did fifteen... so fifteen it is again!

Well... thirteen of mine, plus two "honorable mentions" that Alex took, but that were definitely among my favorites of the year.

As with last year, there's pretty obvious theming: it's almost all my dogs or various insects, usually with flowers. (There is also one spider, and one frog.)

My favorite fifteen pictures of the year: )
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Today we went up to Estes Park so that Bella could compete in a FastCAT competition. (Hosted by the Husky Kennel Club.)

FastCAT is the AKC's "Coursing Ability Test", where the dogs run 100 yards after a lure. One person lets them go at the start line, and someone else catches them at the finish line.

She went to one up in Cheyenne with Alex a couple months ago, but I was at work. Her times were... not amazing, haha. Her first run was 29.99 seconds, and her second was 35.69 seconds. Oof. She had been really distracted, and while Alex was there to catch her, a stranger was releasing her to run. (Which was helpful! But he didn't really psych her up or anything.)

So today, since it's a sometimes holiday for some people, they had a Monday competition! Which meant I could go!

Estes is lovely anyway, so that'll get its own pictures and post, but this one is just for the competition.

Bella did two runs today, and got her participation ribbons. :)


Here she is!

Her first run... wasn't great. They *very kindly* allowed her to restart, because the first time Alex let her go, she just sat down and looked up at him, like "aren't you coming?"

She did run after they let her restart, but stopped about halfway down the course to check out the van parked over on the other side. (I'm not sure what the people over there were doing, but it was something with the event, so they were there on official business.) We did get Bella to start running again, but her first time was 31.69.

(Everyone was very nice about her terrible time. [For comparison, the good scores are closer to the 8-10 second range, lmao. The best of the best are under that.] Everyone kept saying "Don't worry, she'll get it! She'll learn how it works!" and giving her little "Aw, Bella, you tried!" pep talks.)

We did her second run a little later, and while she did slow down in the middle (she may have been getting tired), she didn't stop and she did pick it back up when I kept calling for her. Her time on the second run was 14.21 seconds, which is certainly not *amazing* but I am *delighted* by for her! I know she could get a faster time, but I'm really happy with it, and it was definitely her best run, and the closest she's come to "getting it" in terms of what to do.


Her times on her ribbons!

Three more pictures below the cut: )

Which is really all to lead up to the single best picture I have ever taken of Bella. I'm fairly sure it is the best picture that ever will be taken of Bella.


It captures her so well!

She often looks so noble. This is certainly a better representation of her inner dog.
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Some random pictures from the last week...ish.

...we found another katydid.

She was outside and fluttering around sadly on the ground. This one is a female.

We scooped her up because she seemed sad and in danger, lol. She was slightly bigger than Greenbean, and seemed to be a slightly lighter color, with dark eyes instead of green. The next morning in better light, they were the same color actually, and her eyes were no longer dark. (Experimentation has shown that the eye color seems to be a reaction to light - when they're in the dark for quite a while, their eyes are dark. Lets in more light, like dilated pupils?) Before figuring that out, I took her apparent color-change into account and named her Moodring.


Here is Greenbean at the top and Moodring at the bottom, eating some beans.

Ultimately I got her her own mesh bug cage. One was a little small for both of them, and they didn't seem to get along terribly well. (Not like they fight or anything, but they'd click and posture kind of angrily until one of them would walk away.) So probably not looking at katydid eggs in our future.

The males do the strings of clicks, while the females do single very loud clicks. They are both quite loud for a small apartment, but I still like them.

At the park, I got a really nice picture of a bee:


(And extra bee friends. The asters are much-loved by the bees in the fall.)

Seven pictures from the park: mushrooms, dogs, bugs... )


The spot where the houseplants are the thickest, lol. (This is not all of them.)
[Top row: African violet that I brought back from the brink of death once, small dish of succulents, my Christmas cactus that I also feared was a lost cause, shiny new pothos, shiny new African violet, Alex's other giant African violet, and then my dragonwing begonia which has absolutely exploded there, ha.
Bottom row: Little spider plant, little itty bitty monstera, library plant (a peperomia, grown from my original), a couple little cuttings I stole from an abandoned plant in the apartment lobby seeing if they root, a leaf from one of the African violets that Alex is trying to clone, a different shiny new pothos, a grafted cactus that has far outlived expectations, and another spider plant.]

Four pictures of houseplants: )

And two pictures of mom and Taylor's cat:


She settled in immediately. She has been named Mocha.


She screm for food.
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It's a bit soon to say that it's *really* spring yet; we did have quite a lot of snow on Saturday, though it melted off quickly. But the last couple of days have at least felt like spring, and it's nice to finally see leaves and flowers!


Bella looking at the treat in Alex's hand posing in front of the lilacs.


And Cy!

Eight more pictures of flowers and dogs )

We'll see if the weather stays nice! It's probably too much to hope for that we've seen the last of the snow, but I'd really like if it confined itself to rain from here on out!

Dogs

Apr. 25th, 2024 08:10 pm
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Cy and Bella, having a rare mutual cuddle.

(Bella is pretty much always down to snuggle up with Cy, but he's ambivalent.)

Four more dog pics: )
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Cy is doing better today.

He had to sleep on the bed on the floor, but he did get up a couple of times overnight to reposition.

This morning he didn't want to get up, so Alex used the sling to help him up and get him downstairs to go outside. Once we were outside, he walked on his own and made it all the way back to the apartment without help.

Apparently Alex took a nap sometime mid-afternoon, and when he woke up Cy was in bed with him. On the one hand: great, he's feeling well enough to jump up on the bed! On the other NO NO NO DON'T DO THAT, JUMPING IS THE THING THE VET SAID NOT TO LET YOU DO AT ALL.

Tonight he's been moving around almost normally. Still a little unsteady and stiff, but getting up pretty regularly and walking around.

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Here are some pictures of the dogs from the last few weeks:


Cy in the snow we got last week!


Cy and Bella in their coats out in the snow.

Bella will occasionally watch TV, particularly if there are animals on screen. She really likes "My Cat From Hell," particularly if the cats are running around and playing. She also will watch dogs on-screen:

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Because of course I take an obnoxious number of dog pictures. Most of these are from a day in the park on November 22nd, though there are some other ones from other dates.


Both of them curled up together last night. Awww.


I wanted a picture of the dogs laying nicely together... but they weren't terribly cooperative. Cy wanted to plop down and sun, while Bella wanted to get up and do things, lol.

Six more pictures below the cut: )


And one non-dog picture: look at this cute ladybug in the park.

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We went on a really lovely hike today, enjoying this unseasonably warm day. It was beautiful, and I'm really glad we got to go be outside for a few hours. (There will be pictures later, but I haven't sorted through them yet.)

That does mean that I didn't succeed in any of the catching up I needed to do, but I think getting outside and moving around was the better thing to do! I wish I had another day off - I feel a bit more energized and like I *could* tackle that stuff I've fallen behind on... but now it's time to go back to my workweek where I have no time or energy. Bleh.

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We finished watching The Fall of the House of Usher, and I really enjoyed it. I'm hoping to rewatch it with Taylor - I think they'd like it, too.

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Took the dogs to the pet store yesterday and wound up getting them too much stuff. Spoiled monsters.

Bella is up to 41 lbs though, which is great! That's about the weight we were hoping to get her to. She fluctuated in the mid-30s when we got her from the shelter before we figured out her dietary problems. Because of her knees we were told *not* to let her gain any weight, and I understand the concern, but... her ribs were still prominent at that weight, and her hip bones stuck out enough that they caused discomfort for her when she'd sit, or if people pet her there. So while we don't want her much heavier than this, she's looking and moving SO much better now. She's also put on a lot of muscle - she actually has the beginnings of a butt, lol, plus her shoulders and chest are getting stronger. She looks like a proper beefy pitbull (just still small)! I am still just really blown away by how much better she looks now as compared to when we got her.

Cy has unfortunately dropped quite a bit of weight. We've upped his food intake, and his energy levels have been great the last few days, but it's upsetting how much muscle he's lost. He still seems to be doing okay otherwise, but just isn't holding weight well.

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I've got two major things to catch up on: writing the AUgust oneshots, and catching up on my habit tracking. I think the biggest issue I've been having is that both are hovering over me, and then I can't decide which to do, so I wind up doing neither. I feel like catching up on the tracking means I'm neglecting writing, but every day that I DON'T catch up on tracking is another day I have to try and reconstruct from memory. Both tasks feel like they grow to an even less-manageable size every day I fail to do them, and the indecision about which to tackle has been paralyzing me.

Sure, these are annoying minor problems to be griping about this way, but this is one of those probable-ADHD things that I HATE struggling with, because I CAN see that it's a stupid thing to be so stuck on, and it's not like any of this is high-stakes, but it is SO EXTREMELY FRUSTRATING.

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NaNoWriMo is coming up distressingly fast, and I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do for it, if anything. I feel like I'll regret it if I don't even give it a go, but I also worry about trying to tackle it without a chance to do any preparatory work, and considering how badly I've dragged on the AU fics, I don't think I'll have a chance to do anything else this month.

I'm aware that I've been battling burnout for months - for most of this year, really, though I've actually written a lot more than I'd anticipated I would this year so far. Even so, it's been in spurts, broken up with a lot of frustrating stretches of near-zero writing because I just *can't.* I don't like that feeling, and unfortunately I know that a lot of times NaNo leaves me feeling that way if I push too hard to make wordcount.

Buuuuut, I also really WANT to get excited about a project, and NaNo can be a great source of hype and enthusiasm, even if I'm not doing any of the social aspects of it. I want to write something that's just... shamelessly iddy and do my best to have FUN writing something. Not that other things haven't been fun, just... I really want to lean into writing something tailor-made as brain candy for me, lol. Then again, writing something intended to be pure id-fic for myself is a little revealing, ha, and makes me reluctant to say overmuch about it. (But I'm leaning toward a fantasy werewolf poly romance thing that I accidentally got invested in some ideas for, lol.)
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One more day, then two days off, then two more days, then five days off! I can make it, right???

I'm not feeling completely dead on my feet tonight, which is pleasant, yet at the same time I feel like I could faceplant and fall immediately asleep, so maybe I AM tired. (It was a 9.5 hour workday, as expected.)

I'd like to do *something* to strike off the to-do list, but... I don't think it's going to happen tonight. Writing, or cramming a full week of tracking into one flurry of effort... I know well enough that I likely won't feel like it tomorrow either, but oh well.

At some point I'll surely have something to write about that isn't just bitching about work making me tired, right? Right?

Both the dogs seem to be sick. :/ Unpleasantness out one or both ends for each of them, so it seems clear they both had something that didn't treat them well, despite a pretty controlled diet. I'm worried it could be that they stepped in the noxious floor cleaner they put on the elevators and then licked their paws. Or pesticides or something in the grass. They're on the sad dog starvation diet (skipping dinner) for tonight, and we'll hope they're feeling a bit better tomorrow. Cy has been acting pretty blah, though Bella seems to feel okay.
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Yesterday was... painfully busy.

Took the dogs to the indie pet store to get baths. Bella's first "real" bath; she's had a quick bath in the bathtub before, but the tubs at the dog wash are a lot easier to use. She was pretty good, though fearful of the dryer. (Also Cy's least favorite part, though it doesn't really bother him anymore.)
After that, went to the hardware store to get some plants for my mom. She pretty much got stuck with "whatever looks like it might survive" from what was left.
Then we went to the grocery store.
Then we went to the other pet store for crickets and the joint supplements for the dogs.
Then went home to drop Cy and the groceries home (because it was very hot and Cy was obviously tired.)
We then went to a plant nursery in the hopes of finding the basil plants my mom had requested, but alas, they'd sold out the day before. (So we were zero for three on the basil hunt.)
THEN we went over to my mom's to drop her belated birthday gifts off, and talked for a while.
Finally made it home fairly late, didn't even start dinner until 8:00...
And then remembered I had to make food to take to a work potluck today as a goodbye for our senior instructor who is moving at the end of the week. (Sobcry.) I made cookies, they turned out good, but I was up until after midnight to do it.

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I have also gotten to surprise myself by remembering that I have this weekend off, so we can go to Pride. I'm almost as excited for the three-day workweek as I am for the four-day weekend.
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So...

We're pretty sure Bella is allergic to wheat.

And we talk about gross dog things again... )

So, tl;dr and source of eye-rolling: This dog is forcing me to be the kind of person that says my dog has to be on a gluten-free diet.

To be clear, the need for gluten-free anything is not at all what I'm eye-rolling at!

It's just that I know every single person we ever have to say this to about Bella is going to think we're weirdos forcing our dog onto a fad diet.

Sick dog...

May. 6th, 2023 08:53 pm
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Today is definitely an early-to-bed night.

Got to bed late last night - stuff kept coming up, but I really wanted to read some, so I didn't get to bed until around 1:30.

...And then woke up around 4:45 because I could hear Bella in the kitchen, which is weird, because she never really gets up in the middle of the night.

Cut for gross pet things )

So my three hoursish of sleep was not enough. At all.

Class tomorrow, and not looking forward to it. Still behind on most of the things I need and want to do, but it sure isn't happening tonight!
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Delightfully, nicer weather has hit on my days off again!

Today, the dogs had the Best Day Ever (TM), the ingrates.

Went to the park near the apartment and both dogs got to run around and chase tennis balls for a while.

Then we went to the indie pet store for a couple things, and both the dogs got fancy new collars (they're reflective! Bella's is pastel rainbow with silver hearts, and Cy's is purple and teal with silver planets and stars.) They also got dog ice cream, which was the part they were much more excited about, obviously.

Then we went to the store, and then to Pelican Pond for a very short walk. (Because the dogs were definitely tired by then.)


There was a pelican! Canadian geese for scale! Why are they so big!


There were tons of ducks, mostly paired off.

Five more: )
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Bella is settling in pretty well. <3 She's picking things up pretty quickly, and has settled down a bit. (And unsettled down in others: she wants to play play play play, and it's so hard to try and keep her calm, even when I know her injured legs are going to be hurting.)

Today she got a harness (since she's slipped her collar a couple times), and her own coat, because she gets very, very cold and Cy's coat was SO BIG on her. (She's so smaaaaaaall.) Apparently having both dogs in the pet store was much more of a pain than they are individually, ha.

On Monday we're going to try heading to an animal-stuff thrift store in a neighboring town, and see if they have a reasonably priced crate. Maybe also some bowls with non-stick bottoms, lol. And we'll probably go get her nametag made, because barring disaster, it seems pretty official at this point.



Dat face. Cy in my lap on my way to work, her smooshing herself into his neck, lol.

Just two more below the cut: )


From Alex, today while I was at work.

Unstaged. She just came and sat down on him, lol.
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Alex and I have talked a few times about getting another dog. We've pretty much always decided that a second dog would be way too much for our tiny apartment.

But...

Alex was looking at adoptable dogs on the local shelter's website last week, and saw this dog. Her shelter name was "Marigold." She's a two-ish year old pit bull, on the small side (weighed today, she was 41 lbs.) He sent me the link and told me how much he liked her.

Well, yesterday we had to go to the shelter to get Cy's county license renewed. After doing that, Alex wanted to go look at the dogs ("Just to look! I know we can't get another dog!")

Aaaaand Marigold was still there. She was extremely friendly, coming up to the front of the kennel, wanting to play, pushing her toy through the gaps in the grate, wanting to play tug...

*Sigh*

So I asked Alex if he wanted a dog for his birthday. (I do know that ANIMALS ARE NEVER GOOD SURPRISE GIFTS, for the record.)

Cut for minor discussion of hypothetical animal death: )

BUT ON TO HAPPIER THINGS.

Our meeting yesterday... )

Alex went and picked her up today.


She made herself right at home.

She and Cy have gotten along pretty well so far, at least mostly.

We were expecting Cy to be the one a little upset by her, but he's been quite accommodating. (A *little* clingy tonight, but otherwise fine.) *She's* been the one to already have some jealousy issues, and I guess she squabbled with Cy a bit earlier when Alex was giving him attention.

They had a bigger snarling match tonight when Cy tried to take a toy she was chewing on - she did actually break skin (very shallowly) snapping at him, but they broke it up pretty fast as soon as we yelled.
So that's... concerning. The shelter didn't mention any issues with other dogs, or any resource guarding. She's *not* at all aggressive with either of us; we've been able to take toys and even her food away from her without incident.
We'll keep an eye on that - it has been less than twelve hours, and it was a stressful day full of lots of unfamiliar things. (A car! A pet store! An elevator! A new apartment! More car, more elevator, aaaaaaaaaaaa!)

Otherwise there've been no issues when the two are together, no matter how close. She was also good at the pet store, even though there were other dogs.

She seems to have had a bit of training, because she somewhat inconsistently responds to "sit." She's not great on a leash, but not horrible either. She peed in the apartment earlier with no warning, but after a couple unproductive outside trips, she did both her #1 and #2 outside this evening, for which we praised her heavily. So housetraining is a big question mark.

She's scared of the car and terrified of the elevator. We're working on it.


She can't get up on the bed, so that's the one place Cy still has to himself, lol. You can see that she is quite a bit smaller than him!

A few more pictures: )
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Went to the zoo today! We'd planned to last week, but Alex wasn't feeling well. Today wound up being a perfect day to go - nicely warm, but no longer HOT. Lots of animals were out and appreciating the weather, too, which is always fun. As almost always, we ran out of time at the end - the late morning ticketing times were sold out, so we went at 12:15... and even with 5 hours, hit closing time while we were still in the "Tropical Discovery" building, and had to speed-walk the last several exhibits.

Took a ton of pictures, as ever, so I'll try to get those posted tomorrow. :)

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In less fun news, apparently Raven (my mom and Taylor's dog) very suddenly went blind yesterday. She's fairly old - 10 years old? Maybe 11? - and has had a few "bumping into things" issues for a long time. But this was just very sudden and complete, and Taylor said she was obviously distressed about it, seeming confused and scared.

Taylor took Raven to the vet today, and they said she seems fine otherwise. She has some inflammation around the ocular nerves, so they gave her some treatments that will hopefully help that. It's possible that if the inflammation is resolved, that some or all of her vision may come back, but it also may not.

It sounds like she seems more well-adjusted tonight - she's navigating a bit better, and she seems less upset. They blocked off the stairs to the basement just to prevent any falls, but otherwise she's fortunately only ever really spent time on the main level of the house, so this won't restrict too much of her movement, assuming she figures out how to navigate.

I know several people who've had or have known blind dogs that adjust fairly well, even when it happens later in life, and I don't doubt that Raven will do so if she needs to. But I very much wish there was a way to explain to a dog what's happened, because that's gotta be terrifying.

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